The Living Memory of Tessa 'Jean Marie' Sarver
“Oh my!” sweetie pie, we miss you saying that. Tessa was a loving presence devoted to social justice. Her friendship and sisterhood will be deeply missed. |
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The Living Memory of Minister BobbieJean Baker
Min. BobbieJean Baker
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“It’s a big community loss. She [was] huge in the African-American transgender community and the community at large,” Beautiful memory of Min. Baker Preaching and SingingCommunity Mourns Loss of Transgender Oakland Minister
Bobbie Jean Baker See more at: http://elixher.com/community-mourns- loss-of-transgender-oakland-minister- bobbie-jean- baker/#sthash.oPwqPthU.dpuf Community members everywhere are mourning the loss of transgender activist and religious leader Bobbie Jean Baker. Baker, 49, tragically died in a car crash on New Year’s Day. “It’s a big community loss. She [was] huge in the African-American transgender community and the community at large,” said Tiffany Woods, the program coordinator at the Tri-City Health Center in Fremont, the only transgender program serving transgender women in Alameda County. “She was grooming the younger [generation] and mentoring them.” A staunch advocate and role model, Baker worked with trans women overcoming substance abuse, homelessness and more. The Memphis native moved to the Bay Area in 1992 and later became an ordained minister at the City of Refuge United Church of Christ in San Francisco. She was the lead singer in the transgender group Transcendence Gospel Choir for a decade and was returning from a nighttime service when the crash happened. The unfortunate incident is currently under investigation. The ELIXHER team had the honor of meeting Bobbie Jean Baker at the 2012 TransSaints in Color Conference in Charlotte, NC. W e are extremely saddened by this news. A ceremony was held in Baker’s honor Saturday, January 11 at 1 p.m. at the First Congregational Church of Oakland, at 2501 Harrison Street. |
The Living Memory of Melenie Mahinamalamalama Eleneke
Melenie, we honor you. Thank you for blessing us with your life. In your memory we continue the struggle for survival, self-determination, and freedom. Longtime TGIJP Leader & Stiletto Editor Leaves a Legacy of Love
By Morgan Bassichis – former TGIJP Leadership Member 11/4/13 In September, our dear sister Melenie Mahinamalamalama Eleneke passed away in her home in Daly City at the age of 53. Melenie was born on Oʻahu, Hawaii on December 25th, 1959. Her nephew Tamalani Auvaʻa, with whom Melenie had been living for the last three years, shared that at age 14, Melenie bravely transitioned and demonstrated the courage and passion that she would carry front and center for the rest of her life. She was beloved by a vast network of family, friends, and colleagues, and her loss has been felt my many. Melenie joined TGIJP (then called the Trans/Gender Variant in Prison Committee) in 2004, and, until her passing in 2013, played almost every role in the organization—she visited trans people at California Medical Facility (CMF) in Vacaville and other prisons; she wrote letters with and organized letter-writing events for imprisoned trans people in California and throughout the country; she organized planning and empowerment retreats for our members; she brought delicious food to our weekly meetings; she offered workshops on spiritual healing to trans people coming out of prison and jail; she represented the organization at protests and coalition meetings; she wrote grants and organized fundraisers and asked people for donations; she updated our database; she helped the organization move between two spots Market Street and then to 9th Street and then over the bridge to 46th Avenue in Oakland; she edited and wrote for our annual newsletter, Stiletto, and sent it into prisons; she flew to Geneva, Switzerland in 2008 to testify with Miss Major in front of the United Nations about the human rights abuses of transgender women of color (of course clad in her white knee high boots, long gloves and faux fur coat to keep her stylish and warm); and so much more, both out-in-front and behind-the-scenes. But even this list does not begin to describe the contribution Melenie made to TGIJP over her 9 years with the organization. Miss Major, TGIJP’s long-time leader and beloved movement elder, said, “Melenie brought an aura to TGI. She was always sweet and open and generous with her time and experience. She was a wonderful lady.” Janetta Johnson, Program Co-Coordinator with Melenie, said of her, “She brought a sense of welcomeness and warmth, a very nurturing spirit for the people we work with and for. She always let people know that she cared about them.” For Beck Witt, longtime TGIJP leader, “Mel brought a leadership that was rooted in a deep spirituality and respect for those who came before her. She was all about loving on and including and supporting everyone around her.” StormMiguel Florez, TGIJP’s |
Melenie and her beloved daughter Kukunaokala
Melenie shares a Transgender Spirituality workshop and ritual at TGIJP's 2012 empowerment retreat.
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Administrative Director, said, “Melenie brought passion and much-needed humor, even in the hardest of times. She also brought honesty and a very compassionate realism to the organization. The health of TGIJP and our members meant the world to her. She gave me a lot of joy—my memories of her always make me smile.” Alex Lee, TGIJP founder and longtime TIP member, said, “Melenie brought her immense heart to the work we did and the people we helped. After our first prison visit together, Melenie told me how upset she was that our sisters in prison were so cut off from community and from resources to help them. She became even more determined to learn about the prison industrial complex, and how she could become a better advocate for our community inside.” Malachi Larrabee-Garza, Leadership Team member, reflected that Melenie brought “cultural grounding of a tireless mandate to care for each other and work for the full recognition of ourselves as sacred beings, no matter the degree of exploitation, oppression, personal triumphs or failures.”
During the celebrations of her life following her passing, we were moved to see just how many people and groups held Melenie as dear as we did. She was “Auntie Mel” to countless people in LGBT, Pacific Islander, and social justice communities—in addition to TGIJP, Melenie was an active member of The Ladies of Keolalaulani Halau and the House of Valenciaga, a founder of a transgender women of color hula group, and a long-time leader in the Asian & Pacific Islander Wellness Center, among other groups. A lifelong spiritual healer, Melenie was a fierce advocate for the preservation of the culture, language and spiritual practices of the Hawaiian people, and brought this commitment to all parts of her life. The many celebrations of her life were filled with laughter, dancing, food, and memories of time spent together.
All of this speaks to the legacy Melenie has left behind. For Miss Major: “Melenie left a sense of humor, to be able to laugh at yourself and not take the world so seriously.” For Janetta: “She left behind a greater passion to do and be better, to be more involved in the movement and work for the people in the system. She tells me, ‘OK, Janetta, you can do it. Be a part of.’” For Beck: “Mel leaves behind a lot of people that miss her and want her back! She would want us to find humor in every situation—she greeted even the hardest moments with the deepest laughter.” For StormMiguel: “Melenie reminded us how important it is to stay connected, to remember that we are all family.” For Alex: “Melenie had that rare ability to feel compassion and rage in her gut whenever she saw anyone being treated unfairly or being discriminated against. She is leaving behind a legacy of deep caring and commitment.” For Malachi: “We are following in Melenie’s guidance by working for liberation based in people’s abilities to survive every day. She modeled this for us.”
TGIJP works to break the chains that keep transgender women of color—and all people—trapped by prison, jail, detention, police, racism, and poverty. As our mission states, we are creating “a united family in the struggle for survival and freedom.” Melenie embodied this vision and commitment in her bones: She believed in people. She believed that, whoever you are, your life is worth fighting for. Although our hearts are heavy with the grief of losing such a dear sister and friend, we are grateful to count ourselves among the lucky recipients of her bright light, unconditional love, and generous spirit.
Melenie, we honor you. Thank you for blessing us with your life. In your memory we continue the struggle for survival, self-determination, and freedom.
During the celebrations of her life following her passing, we were moved to see just how many people and groups held Melenie as dear as we did. She was “Auntie Mel” to countless people in LGBT, Pacific Islander, and social justice communities—in addition to TGIJP, Melenie was an active member of The Ladies of Keolalaulani Halau and the House of Valenciaga, a founder of a transgender women of color hula group, and a long-time leader in the Asian & Pacific Islander Wellness Center, among other groups. A lifelong spiritual healer, Melenie was a fierce advocate for the preservation of the culture, language and spiritual practices of the Hawaiian people, and brought this commitment to all parts of her life. The many celebrations of her life were filled with laughter, dancing, food, and memories of time spent together.
All of this speaks to the legacy Melenie has left behind. For Miss Major: “Melenie left a sense of humor, to be able to laugh at yourself and not take the world so seriously.” For Janetta: “She left behind a greater passion to do and be better, to be more involved in the movement and work for the people in the system. She tells me, ‘OK, Janetta, you can do it. Be a part of.’” For Beck: “Mel leaves behind a lot of people that miss her and want her back! She would want us to find humor in every situation—she greeted even the hardest moments with the deepest laughter.” For StormMiguel: “Melenie reminded us how important it is to stay connected, to remember that we are all family.” For Alex: “Melenie had that rare ability to feel compassion and rage in her gut whenever she saw anyone being treated unfairly or being discriminated against. She is leaving behind a legacy of deep caring and commitment.” For Malachi: “We are following in Melenie’s guidance by working for liberation based in people’s abilities to survive every day. She modeled this for us.”
TGIJP works to break the chains that keep transgender women of color—and all people—trapped by prison, jail, detention, police, racism, and poverty. As our mission states, we are creating “a united family in the struggle for survival and freedom.” Melenie embodied this vision and commitment in her bones: She believed in people. She believed that, whoever you are, your life is worth fighting for. Although our hearts are heavy with the grief of losing such a dear sister and friend, we are grateful to count ourselves among the lucky recipients of her bright light, unconditional love, and generous spirit.
Melenie, we honor you. Thank you for blessing us with your life. In your memory we continue the struggle for survival, self-determination, and freedom.
The Living Memory of Chris Teagel
Chris Teagel, who passed away on December 4th.
The Living Memory of Marilyn Outlaw
Marilyn Outlaw
Thank you for touching our lives.
Home-going on Wednesday
May 9, 2012
City of Refuge 1025 Howard
5:00 PM
Thank you for touching our lives.
Home-going on Wednesday
May 9, 2012
City of Refuge 1025 Howard
5:00 PM